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Some Signs of C-PTSD on Ella—A Happily Married Woman
Ela was happily married—or that’s what others thought—until the day her husband came home with a DVD he had bought. Not a common practice for him. The name of the movie was “Sleeping with the Enemy” with Julia Roberts. Ela loved movies and made some popcorn to watch it with her husband. “Who recommended it?” she asked. “Myself,” he responded. “I think it’s time for you to wake up.” That day marked the beginning of Ela’s understanding of her dissociation, her depression, her l
Antonieta Contreras
Oct 174 min read


Love at first flight: can I find a date at the airport? by Tom Gill
An average of two couples meet on every plane trip. What are the odds of a single man like me finding love in a hopeless place (Melbourne...
Antonieta Contreras
Aug 21 min read


Trauma is not a Diagnosis
The term “trauma” is not and has not been used as a diagnosis, despite common misconceptions. What became a diagnosis in the 1980s is post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), with the purpose of providing a framework for understanding the effects of traumatic stress, observed mainly in veterans and battered women.
Antonieta Contreras
Jan 282 min read


Why Many Relationships Fail
Ever wonder why some relationships seem doomed? Let's have a real talk on how to break free from these patterns, grow as individuals, and build a rock-solid relationship.
Antonieta Contreras
Dec 12, 20241 min read


Celebrating One Year of Learning and Systemic Understanding
A year after the presentation of Traumatization and Its Aftermath by Antonieta Contreras. The most comprehensive trauma book in the market
Antonieta Contreras
Aug 28, 20243 min read


Rise and Fall of a Narcissist
The emotional cost of bein g “special." Contrary to popular belief, narcissistic people are not created by trauma—at least not the...
Antonieta Contreras
Jul 24, 20241 min read


Not Every Emotional Reaction Is a Trauma Response
Here are five myths and truths on the fight-flight-freeze response.
Antonieta Contreras
Jul 20, 20241 min read


4 Realities About the Consequences of Trauma
At first glance, the risks faced by someone threatened by a bomb and those of an abused woman may seem worlds apart. But for the brain, the sense of safety—or lack thereof—elicits similar consequences.
Antonieta Contreras
Jun 16, 20241 min read


Decolonizing The Language of Racism
Labeling people by color perpetuates racism. We need new language to make real progress. Picture by Polina Kovaleva Using color to...
Antonieta Contreras
Jun 6, 20245 min read
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